Comes in many forms, from many … some we suspect, some we don’t. When we arrive at the place where we realise we have been deceived, from a trust level, a love level, a friendship level, soul level, you can find yourself surrounded by those that really don’t have your best interests at heart. This can be isolating, confronting and immobilising.
The most destructive is when you exist within a relationship where manipulation, lies and deceit are at the forefront. That attracts your self worth, self esteem. Years of this behaviour especially from a passive aggressive nature, may have you questioning all that makes sense to you, your being. If your mind incessantly moves within constant chatter. If you are constantly anxious – This is NOT healthy or loving oneself.
Others may say, “she is intelligent, pro-active, independent, savvy and outwardly successful – but grant this – The most confident, independent successful woman can be broken by passive, aggressive, deceptive, manipulative, self esteem lowering behaviour.
Words are weapons and for some people – the intention is to hurt, always, and yes, it may be that they don’t like themselves very much within. You can find it within yourself to forgive and have compassion for them. But to do this for yourself first, to armour yourself, to believe in you. To become non-reactionary and empower yourself to know within your soul and being, ou deserve a love and partner, friends, that are not deceptive or manipulative to serve themselves only.
Process your productive thoughts and act upon those with gentleness, to serve and acknowledge you needs and wants.