NPD In the beginning … It all seemingly begins like a normal love story, boy meets girl, it’s all chocolates and roses and compliments and it seems that you have met “the one”. In hindsight though, it quickly showed its unhealthy side. My story … It was not until years later when I realised that

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They can catch you off guard and they can be anywhere, even when you think you are healed and no longer in a space of attracting them, the universe sends you a test to show that there is more work to be done. Always listen and watch peoples behaviours … they will tell you who

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Me/Who am I? I am a happy, secure, fun, positive, appreciative, loving, caring and confident woman. But not 18 months ago. For then I was ‘just’ me – self-conscious; low self-esteem, withdrawn, scared, lonely, sad, depressed, suicidal, and trapped. Eighteen months ago, I finally took a leap of faith, and left my relationship of 19

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Comes in many forms, from many … some we suspect, some we don’t. When we arrive at the place where we realise we have been deceived, from a trust level, a love level, a friendship level, soul level, you can find yourself surrounded by those that really don’t have your best interests at heart. This

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There are common behaviours in everyone that has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Knowing them before getting into a new relationship can save you a lot of heartache. Lies Lies and more lies .. test this out. Ask a harmless question that you know the answer to and that you think they may lie about and watch

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There are many standard and common phrases used by those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Lots of “I” and “my” language, Hardly ever use “us” or “we” or “our”. They will actually tell you who they are by the accusations they make towards you and others. They will not likely ever apologize (that’s your job) and

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